Let's talk — taking responsibility

Reading the Journal Section of the Guardian (Sat 15 2022) I came across an article titled ‘How I gave up an addiction to toxic love’ by Rebecca Humphries.

One observation Rebecca made reminded me of the pattern of my past relationships. Initial attraction and then over time slowly falling out of love. This pattern had repeated itself in every relationship I’d been in until I realised that there was only one common denominator. Me.

It was only when I realised that it was me who was causing the relationships to end and that I needed to take personal responsibility for...